Mark As a woman getting harassed is a risk I take everytime I step out of my house. It doesn't matter where I'm going or what I'm doing it's a risk that I take. We all run that risk when we invite a stranger into our homes or beds. Just because he was in the middle of it doesn't mean he doesn't have a right to change his mind. He has every right to do so. It's his body it belongs to no one but him. He has a right to say what happens to it and what is and is not ok. When he said no that guy should have stopped end of story. No excuse doesn't matter if he invited the guy over for naked smores. No means no. Stop means stop end of discussion. To the writer: I'm sorry this happened to you and you are brave for coming foward and sharing such a personal thing with the world. You are a very strong and brave person.